Monday, August 1, 2022
Balance
Tuesday, May 17, 2022
Monday, February 14, 2022
Happy Valentine's Day
Monday, February 7, 2022
Monday, December 27, 2021
Happy New Year!
Wishing you all a happy and healthy new year!
Alright 2022. Let's do this. I need you to try a little harder than 2021, ok?
Love you.
xo,
T
Monday, December 6, 2021
Pearls
The opportunities for frustration, anger and fear are plentiful. We can lose ourselves and drown in them. We MUST take care to nourish our thoughts, our Spirits, with the opposite of those challenging thoughts and feelings. Find the Love. Hold tight.
Somewhere, there is a pearl.
Let's focus on that.
Love,
T
Monday, May 10, 2021
Self-Talk
"Put that away!"
He thought he would try bossing me around and quickly realized it was not a good way to speak to his mother. He tried to fix it by explaining that really he was just talking to himself. Then I pointed out that he ALSO has to be careful about the away he talks to himself.
It occurred to me that this is a lesson we might all take to heart. I've been guilty of excusing my own brusk speech by virtue of the fact that it is the way I would speak to myself. I might happen to be one of my own worst critics. It really doesn't make a good excuse for speaking to anyone else with discourteous bluntness, but WHY don't I try being more polite to MYSELF too?
I certainly don't have time for polite filters inside my own mind. I think, and I think fast - pulling no punches towards any kind of fragile ego. A lot of us can be quite harsh with ourselves. We have a lot to do and not enough time to do it. I get that, but we could ease up a little. Let's give ourselves a little break, take care of ourselves a little better, be a little sweeter to ourselves. I'm willing to bet it's going to show on the outside as well.
I'll try it.
Love,
T
Monday, May 3, 2021
Just a Touch
It's amazing what we can accomplish when we stand in Love and speak Truth.
There are so many differing viewpoints, but there is also so much misinformation. People are easily offended when criticized, and addressing an issue which might result in conflict is an uncomfortable task. Do it anyway. Stand in Love. Say what you have to say.
We are not perfect. We are sometimes misinformed. Sometimes we will be corrected and it might sting. Sometimes we need to correct others. When that happens, try not to make it sting.
I heard some very misleading statements from a trusted source and was not looking forward to the call I had to make. I knew they had good intentions. They just really missed the mark. The issue itself was one that offends me personally, but I had to put that aside and speak objectively. I made my position known but I did not speak with anger or outrage. I was pleasantly surprised at the outcome. They agreed with me!
It doesn't always work out this way, but when it does... it refreshes the Spirit.
We all have so much work to do. A little patience can go a long way and we need that. We need to be able to take each other's hand and work together - especially when we realize we are on the same side.
With Love,
T
Monday, April 19, 2021
Make Change
Here we are - waiting for the verdict. Change has got to come, somehow, some way. Let's talk about some proposed changes.
While there is much support for The George Floyd Justice in Policing Act, many also agree that it does not go far enough. An article in The Chicago Sun Times (author: Jesse Jackson) says, "Surely the M4BL is right: sensible police reforms are necessary but not sufficient. Renewed investment in communities and greater community control over the police are essential. The plague of mass incarceration must be ended. The George Floyd Act, however, need not be in conflict with broader reforms... Police reforms will never work unless accompanied by and embedded in rebuilding and empowering communities."
Click here for TheBreatheAct.org
Click here for H.R.7120 - George Floyd Justice in Policing Act of 2020 on congress.gov
Several related articles:
Click here for "Movement for Black Lives opposes George Floyd Justice in Policing Act" at PBS.org
We can change. We can learn. We can grow.
Make change.
Love,
T
Monday, March 15, 2021
Empathy Over Anger
Everyone faces challenges. Most people are dealing with a lot of them right now. It would serve us well to remember that.
Monday, February 22, 2021
Bright and Sunshiny
Monday, February 8, 2021
Sadie
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| Sadie July 23, 2006 - February 4, 2021 |
Sunday, January 10, 2021
Monday, December 28, 2020
Family
It's a theme this week. Someone very dear to my heart wished me and my family well. I clearly don't speak to her often enough, because I have long considered her family.
There are so many people whom I consider family, some because they mean so much to me, some related by blood, some I feel a strong connection to (whether I've met them or not) and some just because I believe we are all part of a human family.
A close blood relative and I used to have a saying... "(I) Love you like you're not related." At the time, we meant it as a compliment. If we loved you like you were not related, it also meant that we would be polite to you. We would take care to treat you especially well. As time went on though, the saying changed. It became, "Love you like you're related." It turned out that THAT was an even bigger compliment. It means that we'll be honest with you, even if what we have to say is not what you want to hear. It means that we feel comfortable enough to be emotional in front of you, knowing that you won't pass judgment. It means we are free to be ourselves around you. It means... everything.
As we wrap up this intense year, I'll take some time to reflect. I'll prioritize. I'll make sure that people whom I consider to be family know it.
Click here for "Family Reunion" on Spotify (Tanya Diona)
With Love,
T
P.S.
I hope you all know... I consider you family. Thank you for joining me here. xo
Sunday, December 13, 2020
Monday, December 7, 2020
Charity Navigator
Do you have a favorite charity? Why is it your favorite? What do they do?
I've been learning more about some on here:
Click here for CharityNavigator.org
Watching the news, I've been drawn to Feeding America this holiday season. There are so many amazing people and organizations doing extraordinary things.
It feels like magic. The light and Love created through countless programs and charities, can warm the coldest night and illuminate the darkest hours. It reminds me of the suncatchers Zachary and I made.
Let me know your favorites. Let's talk about them.
Love,
T
Monday, November 30, 2020
Feeding America
Sunday, November 8, 2020
United (Angels' Anthem) - Official Lyric Video
United (Angels' Anthem) on Spotify
With Love and gratitude,
T

























